Getting Her to Return That Call, Part 2

I showed WHY a woman might not call you back in the first part of this article. Now I’ll show you how to make sure she does.

First things first, you need to make sure you get her REAL number to begin with.

Girls get asked for their number so often by guys, that many women have taken up the practice of giving out fake numbers. So when you ask for her number, you want to be sure she’s actually interested enough to give you the real deal.

If the girl is not interested, don’t bother asking for her number. Instead, ask for something a little less personal, like her email address or myspace page.

If she is interested, try this trick – ask for her phone, and then call yourself with it so that her number is in your phone, then save that number. This way, you know for a FACT you have her actual phone number.

(And while your at it, you can actually save your number in her phone so she knows its you when you call. This is important because lots of people don’t pick up unknown numbers!)

Okay, so you have the number, now what? You need to give her a REASON to return your call!

Most guys leave a lame message like “Hey, it’s Billy, from the club. Call me back. Bye.”

How about trying something a bit more URGENT. It could be as simple as:

“Hey, it’s Mike from the other night. You’re not going to believe what I’m watching right now, its going to crack you up. Call me back!”

Creating an “open” conversation loop and some type of curiosity will help encourage a girl to call you back, because naturally, she’ll want to find out what it was that you thought she’d find amusing.

This is just one example – there are lots of different ways for you to create curiosity over the phone. You can even go so far as to recall a conversation you had when you first met, so that she’ll remember the feelings she experienced when she was around you.

But most of all – do NOT get frustrated if you don’t hear back from her right away! Girls get busy, so you need to change tactics.

Text her, asking her when she’ll be available to chat. It’s less annoying than calling and you’ll find it rare that a woman won’t have time for a text response.

When you are able to do all these things, you’ll be amazed at how easy it is to get a girl to call you back.

Joseph Matthews has been instructing guys how to meet women since 2004, and is widely recognized as an expert in the subject of confidence building and dating advice. If you want to discover more about how to meet women, check out his free newsletter.