When a man and woman take marriage vows they feel that this means they are forever connected intimately. The sealing of the ceremony is a symoblized with a kiss. A kiss is the ultimate intimate connection, even more so than sex. Prostitutes are permitted sex with clients, but not permitted to kiss them.
The kiss identifies how things are going in a relationship, the core of it. Most couples do not even notice when their relationship starts to change. A lot of times a passionate relationship ends up a friendship over a period of time. All of a sudden they wake up and realize they are more like roommates than lovers. The key is keeping that friend and having them as a lover as well.
A peck on the cheek says “I love you,” but a 10 second kiss says “I am in love with you.” Most women say they have felt lonely or empty minutes after their husband comes home. If you feel the same way, here is a proven method to eradicate this problem.
The 10 second kiss homework assignment has the quickest and most noticed effect. It will set the tone for the rest of the day, when given in the morning. Likewise, in the evening it will set the mood for the rest of the night. Try this: Grab your spouse tonight and give them a 10 second kiss. If they respond by saying “What’s gotten into you?” just tell them, “From now on we are not going to be roommates anymore. We are going back to being lovers!”
Then tell your mate that you would like to try an experiment. For the next week every time you haven’t seen each other for an extended period of time (usually the work day), you are to give each other a ten-second kiss. Tell him it doesn’t matter how awful his or your day has been. You are to greet each other with a ten-second kiss. You can bring out a stopwatch or use the microwave timer to get him accustomed to the length of this kiss. Have some fun with this.
Ten seconds doesn’t seem like a long time, but it really is! Usually couples greet each other verbally with “Hi, I’m home” or “Anyone here?” Because there is not a physical response, they are left with isolated feelings. Once you relate to one another physically, those feelings will be replaced with warm, close ones. After the kiss, you can go about your normal routine, but now you will feel connected to one another.