Being married to the same person for years can lack excitement so may be a reason why an extra-marital relationship is entered into. Here are some suggestions as to how you might rekindle the love within your marriage, make your partner long to be with you and strengthen your feelings for each other.
Draw two stick figures walking together under a smiling sun. Your partner will appreciate this distinctive gift.
The drawing doesn’t need to be faultless but attempt to make it does need to look as if you have spent some time on it. Label the two figures with your two names. Draw a big heart and write inside it “I love you” or “I still love you”.
Address an envelope with your partner’s office and mark it as “Urgent”. Place the drawings inside and ensure the envelope is sealed. It should be received by your partner at her office in the middle of a tiring and challenging day.
In the warm twilight hours, spread a blanket on the floor, bring some chocolates, snacks and champagne and have a picnic. Relax and gaze at the stars as both of you enjoy the food.
You could surprise your partner by delivering a single rose when you know she will be at home. A message such as “You mean everything to me” could be affixed to it.
Massage in a special way: Purchase some massage oil, a small decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper and a blank card. Use tissue paper to line the box. Arrange the massage items on a table and write this message on the blank card “if you want a sensual massage call this number (your phone number)”.
Take a walk together in the park to bring back childhood memories by trying out the swings in the play area.
In the summer, buy two big water pistols and take them along with you to the beach. Each take one and have a big water fight with your partner.
Find out if there was something your partner had always wanted when she was a little girl.. Buy this for her birthday.